You’re Not The Problem.
Your strategy is.
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I help Christian men learn HOW to (finally) break bad habits, build better ones, and become the men God meant for them to be.
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You’ve tried to change before—maybe hundreds of times.
You pray more.
You try harder.
You make promises you mean to keep.
But nothing seems to last.
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The Start Super Small System is a simple, biblically-based approach that SHOWS YOU HOW to build habits that actually stick—so you can become the husband, father, and follower of Jesus you've always wanted to be.
THE STRUGGLE IS REAL
You want to be a better man.
You want to honor God.
You want your life to better reflect what you believe.
But you feel stuck and defeated by things like:
- Porn use you can’t seem to quit
- Stubborn weight you can't seem to lose
- Inconsistent spiritual disciplines
- A lack of self-control
- Starting strong but quitting fast
- Feeling lazy, apathetic, and undisciplined
- Disappointing yourself—and God—time and time again
- Knowing what you should do, but not doing it
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The problem isn’t any of these things. The problem isn’t even you.Â
The real problem is that your system for change is broken.
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You have tried to change on your own but you just don't know HOW.
THE START SUPER SMALL SYSTEM:
I didn’t create the Start Super Small System because I had life figured out. I created it because I was tired of failing at the same things—over and over again—while genuinely wanting to honor God and become a better man.
I’d make big commitments, get fired up, pray harder, promise myself, “This time will be different.”Â
And then life would happen and I'd slip back to where I started—discouraged and frustrated.
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Eventually, I realized this important fact:
Men aren’t failing because they’re weak or don't want to change. They’re failing because they were never taught how change really works.Â
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The Start Super Small System was born out of this realization.
It teaches you how to take small steps that lead to big changes that last!
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HOW IT WORKS
You'll learn how behaviors and habits are formed and use that to your advantage to help you change and grow in areas like these (and many others):
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Self-Control: nail-biting, phone scrolling, procrastination, lack of discipline
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Health: losing weight, exercising consistently, eating better, having more energy
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Daily Routines: getting up on time, building strong mornings, following through, Bible reading and prayer
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Relationships: being more present with your wife and kids, building a stronger marriage and sex life, living with more joy, having more patience
Small wins will compound.
Momentum will build.
Confidence will return.
Change will start to feel possible once again!
Get The Start Super Small System!
WHO THIS IS / ISN’T FOR
This is for:Â
- Christian men who are tired of starting over and feeling stuck
- Men who care deeply about honoring God
- Men ready to break bad habits and build better ones
- Men wanting to lose weight, create better spiritual disciplines, stop destructive behaviors, have a better attitude and mindset, and much more
This isn’t for:Â
- Men expecting instant results or miraculous transformation without effort
- Men seeking motivational pep talks instead of a system to follow
- Men unwilling to do small, practical work
- Men relying on sheer willpower alone
It's not justYou...Â
As a Habits & Behavioral Change Coach and as an average, Christian man, I know the battle well.
I’ve been stuck in the same sin cycles more times than I can count—porn, passivity, lack of discipline, uncontrolled anger.
The list goes on.
I wanted to be a better husband, a more intentional father, a stronger follower of Jesus…Â
But every time I tried to change, I’d start strong—and crash just as fast.Â
Motivation would fade.Â
Willpower would fail me.
And I’d feel ashamed all over again.
If that sounds familiar, I get it.
I’ve lived it!
But I've also found a way forward—and now I help other men walk it too.
You don’t need to try harder.
You just need a system that actually works and can help you change.
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If any of that hits home, just know that you’re not alone—and you’re not stuck forever.
This is your wake-up call.
It's time to get up.
It's time to fight.
It's time to become the man God meant for you to be!
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Are YOUÂ Ready to Change for Good?
"This was awesome! Simple ideas that really made a lot of sense to me. I'm excited to keep going and seeing what changes stick!"
Andy S.
"Super simple and doable. I highly recommend this program to everyone who wants to change and isn't sure how!"
Steve M.
"I admit that I was skeptical because I felt like I've tried everything before. But I was wrong. This was the spark I needed. I'm glad I took the chance and started Training For Change!"
Troy T.
"Training For Change helped me learn how to have a better attitude and mindset and is helping me make my home a happier place to be!"
Darin C.
"I've learned that the best way to approach change is truly through small steps. It's not flashy - but it's what really works. This has been so helpful for me in many ways! Also, I realized that chasing habits for habits themselves isn't going to last. There is a deeper reason that we seek to be consistent in our lives. Once we find the reason, consistency becomes natural. Nate helped me to find my deep reason.""
Vitus R.
It's TIME - to Get In The Fight!
Stop guessing what to do next. Learn HOW to change your life - for good - today!
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